Comments on: my dad http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/ Thu, 08 Jan 2009 16:24:46 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Myrtle Beached Whale http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8588 Myrtle Beached Whale Mon, 20 Oct 2008 14:18:48 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8588 Your mom is hot. Best wishes go to your dad. Your mom is hot. Best wishes go to your dad.

]]> By: rel http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8504 rel Wed, 15 Oct 2008 11:53:46 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8504 paisley, GO!! rel paisley,
GO!!
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]]> By: Theresa111 http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8503 Theresa111 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 23:42:40 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8503 Little One, Call and speak with your Dad. Come on over and see the sign I got last week. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs and love, Me. Little One, Call and speak with your Dad. Come on over and see the sign I got last week. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs and love, Me.

]]> By: Theresa111 http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8502 Theresa111 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 23:39:43 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8502 P.S. They are a handsome couple! :) P.S. They are a handsome couple! :)

]]> By: Theresa111 http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8501 Theresa111 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 23:39:15 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8501 Little One, Please visit my site for a sign. I recommend calling the nurses station and if he is able to take a phone call, ask the nurse to transfer the call and ask her to hand the receiver to your Father. This way you can speak directly with him and tell him everything in your heart. You'll know if you should go or not. Please check out the sign I got. I promise to keep you and yours in my thoughts and prayers. Warmest hugs and love, Me Little One, Please visit my site for a sign. I recommend calling the nurses station and if he is able to take a phone call, ask the nurse to transfer the call and ask her to hand the receiver to your Father. This way you can speak directly with him and tell him everything in your heart. You’ll know if you should go or not. Please check out the sign I got. I promise to keep you and yours in my thoughts and prayers. Warmest hugs and love, Me

]]> By: aine evans http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8500 aine evans Tue, 14 Oct 2008 21:53:10 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8500 Definitely go! There are few times in life that can never be done over-- this is one of them. You need to do what YOU need. And anyone that tries to act as a barrier between a parent and his child should be ashamed of themselves.... Definitely go! There are few times in life that can never be done over– this is one of them. You need to do what YOU need. And anyone that tries to act as a barrier between a parent and his child should be ashamed of themselves….

]]> By: Tumblewords http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8498 Tumblewords Tue, 14 Oct 2008 20:54:48 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8498 What a handsome couple! You can only do what your heart tells you. If I were in that position, I would go. Sometimes we research too much when action is the verb of choice. Good luck to your dad! And to you and your family, Jodi. What a handsome couple! You can only do what your heart tells you. If I were in that position, I would go. Sometimes we research too much when action is the verb of choice. Good luck to your dad! And to you and your family, Jodi.

]]> By: Your Friend http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8497 Your Friend Tue, 14 Oct 2008 18:51:19 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8497 If not now? When? What life and death event are you waiting for? This is for your Dad.He loves so much. This is for your sanity. Can you just imagine the regret you'll feel if you don't go and you never seen him again? Don't you have enough self-inflicted guilt, pain and regret? This is one time you can do something good. It won't be pretty between you and your mom and the JW elders, but it will be far better that the alternative if you do nothing.You're gonna have to be both the Street and Scared girl simultaneously. You can do it. You must. Your Angels are with you Jodi. Fly. If not now? When?

What life and death event are you waiting for? This is for your Dad.He loves so much. This is for your sanity. Can you just imagine the regret you’ll feel if you don’t go and you never seen him again? Don’t you have enough self-inflicted guilt, pain and regret? This is one time you can do something good. It won’t be pretty between you and your mom and the JW elders, but it will be far better that the alternative if you do nothing.You’re gonna have to be both the Street and Scared girl simultaneously. You can do it. You must. Your Angels are with you Jodi. Fly.

]]> By: Donn http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8495 Donn Tue, 14 Oct 2008 17:11:17 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8495 I am with Scot on this one. Perhaps it isn't appropriate to express my views on the JW machinery and their mandate to keep any semblence of reality away from their captives at all costs but he is your Dad. He may have voluntarily surrendered his ability to govern his life but you didn't. Their reasons for guarding him are explicitly directed from a dogmatic sense of group preservation. BUT, He is your Dad, and even if you don't get around to saying any of the 'somethings that need saying', he would still love to hear "I Love You Daddy." As a Father, I can think of no higher power than hearing those words from my children. Believe me. I am with Scot on this one.
Perhaps it isn’t appropriate to express my views on the JW machinery and their mandate to keep any semblence of reality away from their captives at all costs but he is your Dad. He may have voluntarily surrendered his ability to govern his life but you didn’t.

Their reasons for guarding him are explicitly directed from a dogmatic sense of group preservation. BUT, He is your Dad, and even if you don’t get around to saying any of the ’somethings that need saying’, he would still love to hear
“I Love You Daddy.”

As a Father, I can think of no higher power than hearing those words from my children. Believe me.

]]> By: Corina http://whypaisley.com/2008/10/13/my-dad/comment-page-1/#comment-8494 Corina Tue, 14 Oct 2008 17:10:19 +0000 http://whypaisley.com/?p=1856#comment-8494 What if you call the hospital? Talk to the nurse's station on his floor and explain that you aren't getting the information you need and are concerned about both your father's condition as well as your mother's. They see your mom while she's there and can gauge how she is doing. In the end, I think you need to do WHAT YOU NEED to do. If being there is what would make things better for you, then go. It could be that your mom is one of those moms that says "no, the house is fine" even when you can clearly see that there are flamings reaching outside of every window and door. I would go. What if you call the hospital? Talk to the nurse’s station on his floor and explain that you aren’t getting the information you need and are concerned about both your father’s condition as well as your mother’s. They see your mom while she’s there and can gauge how she is doing.

In the end, I think you need to do WHAT YOU NEED to do. If being there is what would make things better for you, then go. It could be that your mom is one of those moms that says “no, the house is fine” even when you can clearly see that there are flamings reaching outside of every window and door.

I would go.

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